(Stars – Leanna Crawford)
Today my experience with the DMV was SO much more positive than yesterday’s experience.
That doesn’t mean I walked away with all of my business handled…I still don’t have my registration and license figured out…
…but I have now completed day 4 of trying to get my registration/license figured out, so the fact that I am not crazy frustrated is good evidence that this experience was much better.
Yesterday I left crying because after waiting in line for an hour while the employees in a building that didn’t look like a DMV were being unnecessarily rude to everyone in the building and then randomly just walking away from the counter to just wander the lobby while the line continued to grow…well it was finally my turn and the guy tells me my car title is not a title (umm, there’s that word title at the top, so yeah, it definitely is) and that I need an inspection (which the FAQ’s on the website makes very clear I do not). I try to explain and he just says well you’re from out of state so that might be the rules there, but it isn’t here, and I tried to explain that the website for this state says this is what I need, but he is clearly not listening to I left so incredibly angry and just about ready to start packing my things and give up on this entire venture. Which obviously would be a bad choice considering first that I would be breaking contract with ASHP which I’m sure there’d be some consequences for besides the whole lack of professionalism quitting before my position actually starts…plus the whole it isn’t like there are a lot of other job prospects out there right now issue and you should probably have a plan before you do something dumb like that…
Yesterday someone said I really didn’t want to go to the other DMV in this city because it was exactly what you would expect from a DMV…I heard that and knew that my instinct to go to the other one this time was right on. It being closer to “normal” felt so much safer and more comfortable to me. Despite the fact that I had to lock my bike to a light post because there weren’t any bike racks within a reasonable distance of the place and I refused to drive anywhere else for this dumb thing, the more normal appearance made the start to the encounter already off on a better foot. And the employee I worked with was so incredibly friendly. She went through what I needed…and there was something I didn’t know I needed, but she explained where I could get it and that it wasn’t very expensive and without me even asking she made sure I knew I DIDN’T need an inspection…I had half a mind to ask if she could put that in writing for a good I told you so for the idiot at the other DMV, but first, that would use way more words than I have available for a typical encounter, and second I already told myself I never ever have to go back the other DMV…
…and so I still don’t have a license and registration, but I feel like someone cares and I have a plan for how this is going to go tomorrow and I just have my fingers crossed for no more surprises or other issues…
In related news, the Honda dealership here was kind of frustrating. The first person I talked to in the service department said I had to talk to the sales department and hung up on me…so I called again and started with the sales department who told me it was the service department’s job to help me, but when I explained that the service department told me to talk to sales he told me everything he knew which was really pretty close to everything I needed to know except for he didn’t know one thing so he transferred me to the service department again and I actually got someone who was willing to fill in the blanks for me…hopefully when I show up tomorrow someone helpful is available…but I’m pretty confident now that I can do this.
…I don’t know why they make this so hard…
…this whole thing has been really hard…like Tuesday I called an office that I needed some information from for my registration and the lady I talked to said they could only do it in person. So I got in my car and drove over there since I didn’t know if they’d need to see my car or anything. There were zero legal places to park anywhere in the general vicinity of the office. I mean, technically there wasn’t a sign in the lot of the lawyers’ office across the street that it was for clients only but I know most businesses don’t want you to park there unless you are using their business so parking at a law office seemed like a bad idea…so I was super frustrated and angry because they could have told me when I called that there wasn’t anywhere to park…so I went home and I knew I needed to get it done but I was too angry to put on sunscreen or get my water bottle. I just put on my helmet and biked to the office…and of course when I got there they said they don’t do that in person, only over the phone…and I was so over it that I stood right there in the lobby of the office and called them from their office. It seems like since I was already there it would make way more sense to just talk to me directly, but they didn’t complain about me standing in the lobby talking to them through my phone so I mean it was unnecessarily stressful but I got what I needed from them…and so I had half a mind to go straight from there to the DMV but then I was like umm, you’re already burning and were thirsty before you even left and your hands are already full. This is a bad idea…and I am glad I didn’t, because I don’t think I could have handled another frustration that day…
…so yeah, there have no shortage of things going wrong around here…but I’m not gonna talk your ears off complaining about All. The. Things. right now…but just one more thing…not being pelted with fathers day advertisements didn’t magically make me start getting good sleep. I did go from getting less than an hour of sleep at night to more like 3 hours…but I’m still spending a good 12 hours in bed wishing I were asleep and am now facing the reality that soon I’ll need to go back to work which means getting ready for the day no matter how tired I am and staying up long enough in the evenings to continue getting things done to keep life going…and just thinking about going back to that is exhausting and after a few weeks off while I crave being around people again I also don’t know how I managed this for so long…and with that it is time to start the cleaning up and getting ready for bed process because staying up late for no reason isn’t going to help…so yeah, if you’re a praying person, sleep and DMV crap is what I’m gonna ask for today (I guess we’ll work on my potty mouth a different day)…