(5 minutes at a time – superchick)
That lyric has really nothing to do with what I want to write…but I was listening to Spotify and that song came on and it felt really uplifting…the lyrics go on to say ‘everything will work out to be just fine.’ And that is so true. It might not look like God has a clue what he is doing and how what he is doing could possibly ever lead anyone to him…but he never writes throwaway chapters…and now that I’ve written that, maybe some of this does relate to some extent.
This week I heard a teaching on this verse:
Titus 2:3 older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good
The message was that we should be looking for opportunities to mentor and disciple younger women, because you never know who is in your life for a reason and you only get so many opportunities to really make a difference. That was convicting. In the September/October timeframe I said I definitely wanted to protect people from experiencing what I did…and then we got to December and I was terrified and I really wavered and turned from even thinking about chasing that passion. I was too worried about my own safety…and while that never stopped me before, I’ve learned to care about myself, but more than that, I was worried I would put myself on the line and just be defeated anyway. But what if this is my chance to have a part to play in healing a broken system?
It also made me really thankful for the people who have wrapped around me to care about me. And sad for the people who were expressly in their position to support me and didn’t. And it is easy to be discouraged by all the bad people in the world, but it is important to see the good, too. Like how healing it was to go to the tortillaria for lunch with someone who cared about me, and to go to the place I volunteered who were willing to accept me for who I was and give me the roles I was ready for when for the previous year I’d been torn down weekly by someone who should have been the one cheering me on and the one guiding my progress. And the same type of thing happened this year when things went down.
The one last thing I will say about that is that older and younger doesn’t have to be a chronological age…it reminds me of the day me and the other residents this summer determined a way how everyone was oldest in some way, because somehow at some point we decided it wasn’t fair for just one person to be oldest. Everyone has something to offer. I don’t remember everyone’s reason to be oldest, but as you might have guessed, mine was that I’d been a pharmacist longest…someone else had been at that particular hospital longest…someone was chronologically oldest…etc…
Changing topics…when you rely on musicals and songs for most of your theology because you don’t really read much, there are pieces of stories that get a little distorted or lost…for example…Estherday. There are a lot of things the musical got right, but, umm, when I was reading the actual book and listening to a sermon, I realized they kinda skipped that whole Xerxes intentionally got rid of his previous queen because she refused to be treated like an object rather than a human…so really Xerxes probably wasn’t so sereneless because he was queenless…more like he was sereneless because someone showed him that other people have feelings and therefore treating them like objects isn’t a longterm solution…but that made the ending of the Esther being brave enough to eventually ask for what she needed and the king being open to hearing more about God all the more incredible…and it also makes me feel guilty like I should be doing something to protect people instead of worrying about my own safety. I really don’t know if valuing my own safety or reaching out to try to make changes is the right answer…but when Esther faced the possibility of death and moved forward to protect her family and friends, it seems really shallow for me to not move to protect people when I feel like I am in a place where my life itself is not on the line even though I do feel like I have a lot to lose. So yeah, I guess I have a lot more questions than answers…one of those questions is if there even is anything I can do, but I am feeling like I at least need to honestly ask myself those questions instead of letting fear keep my light in hiding.